my apparent super hero power is invisibility
I am so sick and tired of being IGNORED by my husband! He doesn’t even look at me when I’m talking (not yelling, not nagging) to him, let alone make any sign whatsoever that he has heard me. Clearly, I’m a non-person in his tiny little world. I’ve asked him time and time again for basic consideration and respect but I am just. Not. Getting. It.
All I am for him is a collection of services (cooking, cleaning, organizing, etc.). As long as I perform them and keep quiet in the background, everything’s just perfect for him. My needs haven’t got the SLIGHTEST bit of interest for him. At all. And I’m completely FED UP with this situation, it cannot go on.
Now that we have two young sons, I have to decide whether it’s acceptable to have them grow up in this environment or not….